理智定位 善待自己

发布时间:2019-01-14  阅读量:

班级: 高二十九班

作者:李欣洋

演讲:王雨涵、黄卓越

时间:2019年1月14日

纵观历史,横看人生,人类上继几十亿年的进化链条,下承无限多的发展可能性;我们担负着展现自然历史过程和推动社会历史进步的任务。我们肩上的责任是沉重的,但同时,我们推动着一个一个的梦想变成了现实,我们要对自己准确定位,努力的完善自己,实现我们的梦想蓝图,拥有一个多姿多彩的人生。       

Throughout history and life, the humans connect with the evolution chain for billions of years before, to the following infinite possibility of the development. We shoulder the responsibility, showing the process of natural history and propelling historical progression. The burden we are taken on is heavy, but meanwhile, we translate each dream into reality subsequently. Therefore it is necessary for us to make sure our precise position and make an effort of self-improvement, so that we are able to realize the blueprint of our dream and embrace a colourful life.

但其实,在当今社会大多数人都是不了解自己的,所以我们需要给自己一个准确的定位,不能盲目自信,乐观自大,也不能盲目自卑。要学会准确定位,这要求我们要准确的认识自己。认识自己在心理学中是指人对自身条件、素质、才能等各方面情况的一种判断。古希腊人曾把“能认识自己”看做人的最高智慧。

However, recently, the majority of people suffer a great failure in understanding themselves. That’s why it is essential for us to orientate accurately, avoiding not only blind confidence and arrogance, but also the inferiority.Knowing oneself in psychology refers to people's judgment of their own conditions, qualities, abilities and other aspects. Ancient Greeks once regarded "knowing oneself" as the highest wisdom of human beings.

每天睡多少个小时才会精神饱满?什么方式会帮助自己排减压力?自己最擅长的学科是什么?什么样的学习方式最适合自己?在思考这些问题的同时,不妨问问自己,给自己一个怎样的定位?又把自己放在一个怎样的位置?只有准确认识自己,找准自己的位置,才能灵活地面对学习和生活中的各种突发状况,做到从容不迫。

How many hours do you sleep every day? How can you help yourself reduce stress? What is your best subject? What is the best way to learn for yourself? While thinking about these problems, may I ask myself, what kind of positioning do I have? What position do you put yourself in? Only by accurately recognizing oneself and finding one's own position can one flexibly face all kinds of sudden situations in study and life and be calm and unhurried.

善待自己,首先要在客观上正视自己,人生活在这个世界上,必须对自己有一个正确的认识,有什么优点,有什么缺点,哪些缺点自己通过努力可以改变,哪些缺点还需要借助外力,都要有一个正确的定位,这样在今后的学习和生活中才不会迷失自己。

To treat ourselves well, first of all, we should face ourselves objectively. People living in this world must have a correct understanding about themselves. They need to know what kind of advantages or drawbacks they have. They can change those shortcomings through their own efforts, which shortcomings still needs some helps to deal with, all needs to have to position yourself accurately, just won't get lost themselves in future study and life.

其次是要在心理上愉悦自己。孔子曰:君子坦荡荡,小人常戚戚。从心理学的角度看,就是君子能自我悦纳,心情开朗;而小人则不能愉悦自己,经常自苦、自危、自卑、自惑。愉悦自己是一种心理状态,与客观环境并没有直接关系。有的同学经常抱怨环境不好,觉得作业太多,而有的同学则会反思自己哪里还做得不够好。我们无法改变环境,但我们可以调节自己的心理。

Secondly, you need to enjoy yourself. Confucius said: the gentleman is open and poised, the petty man is often unhappy and worried. From a psychological point of view, it is that the gentleman can be self-acceptance, cheerful mood; And the petty people can not joy themselves, often from the bitter, the since of crisis, the shame, inferiority and confused. Pleasure is a state of mind, not directly related to the objective environment. Some students often complain about miserable conditions, feel too much homework, and some students will reflect on where they do not do well enough. We can't change the environment, but we can adjust our perspective .

再次是在理智上控制自己。珍惜自己,贵在一种身心和谐的生活,这种和谐状态主要靠自己来调节。人不但要认识自己的本能,还要能够驾驭自己的本能,所以,我们要学会理智的看待事情,不能放纵自己的行为。

Also , control yourself intellectually. Cherish yourself, in a kind of physical and mental harmony of life, this harmonious state mainly depends on our own adjustments. People not only need to know their own instincts, but also to be able to control them , so we have to learn to look at things rationally, and can’t indulgent our behavior.

最后,要完善自己,完善自己,实际上是指追求有意义的人生,是人生达到相当完满的境界。完善自己是一个不断改造自己、塑造自己的实践过程,因为只有在实践中,才能显现出自身的弱点和完善的方向,才能获得衡量自身价值的社会标准,才能按照社会进步的需要发展个人才能。

Finally, to improve ourself, actually means to pursue a meaningful life, which is to achieve a fairly complete state of life. Self-improvement is a process of self-adjustment and self-shaping, because we show our weaknesses only in practice and the direction of self-improvement , therefore we can obtain the social standard to measure our own value, develop individual talents according to the needs of social progress.

俞敏洪曾两次参加高考,但是却因为英语成绩不及格而落榜,他认识到了自己的问题,并给自己定了一个小目标:英语要考及格。后来,经过他的不懈努力,不断完善自己,顺利考入北京大学,并且拿到了93分的优异成绩。Yu Minhong took the college entrance examination twice, but failed because of English. He realized his problems and set a small goal for himself: to pass the English exam. Later, through his unremitting efforts, he constantly improved himself, got 93 points of excellent results and successfully entered Peking University.

柴斯达赖说,人会认识宇宙,然而却不认识自我。自己比任何星球都来的遥远。我们要认识自己并且给自己一个准确的定位,之后不断的完善自己,意念坚定到了极致,那便无惧风雨兼程,勇敢的前进吧!等待着我们的是更加美好的明天!

Chaisi dalai once said that man knows the universe, but does not know himself. The ego is farther away than any planet. We need to know ourselves and give ourselves an accurate positioning, and then constantly improve ourselves, the idea firmly to the extreme, then fearless of storms. Keep moving forward bravely! What awaits us is a better tomorrow!


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